phạt phạt

...Tên cai ngục rảo quanh các phòng giam, và dừng lại ngay căn phòng cuối cùng. Căn phòng rộng, và ngăn cách với lối đi bằng cánh cửa sắt nặng nề có mộ ô song sắt nhỏ ở dưới ngang mắc cá chân, nơi để tiếp tế đồ ăn cho tên tù khổ sai. Căn phòng hiên đang giam giữ một tên tù cực kỳ nguy hiểm và rất cứng đầu. Nó đang phải chịu trừng phạt bằng những hình phạt đau đớn vì cái tội cứng đầu của nó. Sau một trận đòn nguyên đêm qua, tên tù  có vẻ dần dần chịu khuất phục và bớt la lối như những ngày đầu.
Tên cai ngục khẽ đưa chìa khoá vào cái lỗ khoá cũ kỹ, chậm rãi xoay mở khoá cửa và xê dịch dần cánh cửa săt nặng nề sang bên. Và cúi nhẹ đầu chui vào trong phòng giam.
Cảnh trước mắt tên cai ngục là một gã tù lực lưỡng, trần trùi trụi và trên thân mình trần trụi đó chi chít những lằn roi còn đọng những vệt máu khô. Tên tù trần truồng, hai cổ tay bị xích sắt cột kéo  treo lên trần nhà, đầu cổ gục xuống dưới. Thấy có người vào, bổng chốc tên tù mở mắt ngước đầu và nhìn chầm chầm vào tên cai ngục và hét to vào mặt hắn: "Mày có giết tao cũng không nói, đồ chó". Vẫn vẻ mặt bướm bỉnh như trước, tên cai ngụ khẽ cười thầm và tiến lại tên tù..Bốp, hắn vả một cái đau chí mạng vào má tên tù, vì trừng trị cái tội chửi bậy. Sau đó, tên cai ngục gần gừ "Mẹ, mày muốn chết cũng không dễ đâu, tao sẽ cho mầy sống dở chết dở, tiệt nòi giống" (hắn hù tên tù như vậy).
"Mày muốn làm gì, có giõi giết tao đi, con chó!"
Tên cai ngục không nói không rằng, lặng lặng móc trong túi ra sợi dây thừng dài, nhỏ và tay kíc nắm chặt lấy hai hòn giái kéo xuống và thắt sợi dây thừng lại từ từ quanh gốc hai hòn dái, đồng thời nắm lấy thân dương vật, dùng tay kích thích cho nó cứng lên. Nhưng vì tên tù quá mết mỏi sau trận tra tấn, và đau đớn nên không thể nào kích thích dương vật cương lên một cách hùng dũng được, chỉ hơi xíu xìu chút. Mặc dù vậy, nhưng tên cái ngục vẫn thắt gốc dương vật lại, xiết từ từ, máu dồn vô đâu dương vật cũng làm cho dương vật tên tù cứng lên hẳn. Tên tù cố oằn người nhưng vô ít, tên cai ngục đã xiết chặt sợi dây thừng vào hai hòn dái và gốc dương vật. Xong, hắn bắt đầu kéo căng dương vật và hòn giái xuống và nối vào song sắt ở ô sắt bên dưới cánh cửa sắt. Tên tù đau đớn, ưỡn người ra trước vì bị sợi dây kéo căng dương vật của nó. tên cai ngục mặc kệ tên tù, và ra khỏi phòng, kéo khép cánh cửa lại. Khi cánh cửa kéo lại, sợi dây lại căng ra và lôi tên tù gần như căng người theo sợi dây trói thắt dương vật của nó về cánh cửa, đau không xuể...

Lâu lắm rồi không có dịp chơi lại trò đóng vai tù nhân bị tra khảo. Tình cờ trên mạng quen một anh ở Phan Thiết, rủ chơi chung. Anh tên Phát, người to con, da ngâm đen và cơ bụng săn chắc. Ah Phát thích đóng vai tên cai ngục làm công việc giam giữ và tra khảo tù nhân. Anh chat hỏi tôi có muốn đóng vai tù nhân không? Nếu được thì đón xe Phương Trang đi Phan Thiết, dừng tại chợ, anh chạy ra đón về địa điểm để chơi trong 2 ngày cuối tuần. Thu xếp công việc ổn thoã, tôi hẹn anh và lên đường tham gia trò chơi đầy hứng thích. Do biết sẽ bị tra khảo đau đớn, nên trước đó tôi chuẩn bị tinh thần lẫn thể lực để tham gia vào cuộc chơi trọn vẹn.
Chiều thứ 6 tôi đã có mặt ở chợ Phan Thiết, và bắt điện thoại gọi cho anh Phát. Anh ta đi xe máy tới và chở về nhà thuê ở cách chợ đó không xa lắm, nhưng thuộc khu yên tĩnh, vắng bóng người.
Vô tới nhà, dựng xe, và cất nón bảo hiểm cũng như đồ đạc tư trang vào tủ, mời tôi ly nước và bắt đầu trò chuyện hỏi tôi những sở thích cũng như những cái không thích. Sau đó chúng tôi bắt đầu trò chơi....
Tôi bị bắt cởi trần truồng và bị đưa vào một căn phòng tối và nhốt ở đấy. Đến tầm khuya, khi đang chìm vào giấc ngủ, tôi bị đánh thức bởi tiếng mở cửa, một bóng người bước vào phòng đè người tôi xuống sàn, và dùng còng 8 còng quặt hai tay ra sau lưng và nắm tóc kéo tôi quỳ lên. Sau đó, hắn lây tay đấm vào bụng tôi như kịch bản hỏi tôi khai ra một số thông tin mật như thoả thuận. Tôi gồng người chịu đòn và nhất định không khai ra cho đến khi nào không thể chịu được. Hắn đánh chừng 20 cái sau đó mở còng tay, và bắt tôi đứng lên ghế đồng thời giơ 2 tay lên cao và trói hai cổ tay và kéo treo lên trần nhà, sau đó hắn đẩy cho người tôi rời khỏi chiếc ghế, treo cả thân thể tôi lủng lẳng trong phòng và hắn lấy cái ghế ra để ngay gốc phòng. Hắn ra ngoài, cứ mặc cho tôi bị treo lủng lãng, dây trói siết cổ tay đau rát. Cả người bị kéo căng ra. Chừng 1-2 giờ gì đó, hắn vào và dùng roi làm bằng dây thừng quất lên khắp người. Tiếng roi vọt trong không khí nghe vun vút, và nện chan chát vào ngực, bụn, lưng, mông, đùi và hai bắp chuối. Thỉnh thoảng có những nhát roi trúng ngay thằng nhỏ đang cương cứng làm tôi co quắp cả thân mình vì đau nhói. Mỗi cú đánh, cả người tôi phải gồng cứng người và rên á lên vì quá đau rát. Thân thể tôi lủng lẳng lắc lư theo từng nhát roi đánh. Hắn đánh chừng 100 roi, sau đó cho tôi đứng lại trên ghế và mở trói, khi vừa tháo trói, cả người tôi ngã khuỵ xuống nền nhà như chuối đổ, cũng may hắn biết trước nên đỡ cả người tôi ngã vào lòng hắn và từ từ đỡ cho tôi nằm hẳn xuống sàn nhà và để cho tôi nghỉ đến sáng. Đến sáng hôm sau, hắn vào phòng và đánh thức tôi dậy. Và dẫn tôi ra chỗ ăn sáng.
Tôi vẫn trần truồng, người đầy lằn roi đỏ rướm máu đau rát. Ăn sáng xong, hắn cho tôi ra phơi nắng sáng và không quên trói hai tay tôi lên xà ngang ngoài hiên nhà. Bắt tôi trói đứng phơi nắng trong tư thê trần truồng suốt 1 giờ, sau đó hắn dội một xô nước lạnh từ đầu xuống và cởi trói cho tôi vào nhà nằm nghỉ đến trưa. Sau khi ăn trưa xong, vẫn để tôi trần truồng, hắn lại bắt tôi ra ngoài trói hai tay lên xà ngang đó phơi nắng tiếp 30 phút và đánh 50 roi. Sau đó cho tôi vào nhà nằm nghỉ tới chiều.
Vẫn chưa đã, khoảng 5 -6 giờ, hắn vào và bắt tôi nằm ngữa xuống nền nhà, trói căng hai tay hai chân ra bốn gốc và bắt đầu nhễu sáp nóng chảy từ ngực xuống tới bàn chân. 3 cây nến to đều bị hắn đốt cho chảy hết lên toàn bộ thân thể trần truồng. Và cuối cùng hắn dùng roi đánh cho tróc hết lớp sáp đông trên da tôi chừng 50 cái và bắt tôi nằm sấp xuống, trói căng hai tay hai chân, tiếp tục nhễu sáp lên lưng mông và chân và sau đó là quất roi. Sau khi đánh 50 roi xong, hắn cởi trói và cho tôi nghỉ ngơi...

Hogtied boy

When a boi is hogtied, he's totally helpless if you shove a shoe into his face. Not that I feel sorry for him.

Còng tay

An toàn trong khi chơi trói bondage 2

Rope bondage has inherent risks. As such it is important that you take all necessary precautions to avoid injury and possible legal action


•Equipment


•Safety scissors / EMT sheers





These are a must-have in any rope kit (and a spare pair too).
- For emergency use when you need to get the submissive out of the ropes NOW.
- Check they are capable of cutting through the rope you use BEFORE you need to use them
- Use shears/scissors with a blunt end to avoid cutting the submissive
These must be close to hand. There's no point them being hidden in the bottom of the rope bag!





•Marlin Spike - useful for undoing tight knots where time is not an issue WARNING - SHARP!


•Torch - in case there's a power cut and you need light


•Water (in plastic bottle or cup) - in case either of you feel faint



•First Aid kit - see the First Aid article for suggested contents.



•


•Awareness


Be aware of the health of each partner & physical capabilities. If either player has a condition which could affect play then they should inform the other person what it is, how it manifests and what to do if it happens! E.g.. Heart Conditions. Epilepsy. Diabetes. Respiratory Conditions. Allergies


Be ‘here’ and ‘now’. Use of drugs or Alcohol inhibit reactions and awareness. Stay aware of the scene, the players and the environment


Monitoring. Check body colouration and feel before being put in bondage, and then keep an eye out for adverse changes. Some people's hands are hot and clammy, some are cold and dry, but you wont know what is normal for them unless you feel before the ropes go on


Movement. Ropes change tension and tightness as the submissive moves or more ropes are put on. Keep an eye on the ropes and adjust as necessary.


•Safewords / Silent Alarms


See my comments on Safe Sane and Consensual for suggestions on the use of Safewords and Silent Alarms.


•The Ropes


Avoid:


Cutting in / Width / Load
Constriction / Circulation / Nerve Damage
Insecure/loose knots
Too tight bondage (you should be able to slip 2 or 3 fingers between the flesh and the ropes)
Avoid ropes around the throat
Avoid unprotected / delicate areas (e.g. inside of wrists, small bones in foot)
Avoid joints


Caution:


Care with gags (see below)
Position of knots may dig in / cause discomfort or injury
Positional asphyxiation
Falling / Fainting / Panic
Keep an eye on your ropes for wear and tear and take precautionary action


•Rope Gags


Choke hazard – avoid loose objects in the mouth
Dry rope absorbs moisture from mouth (suggest wetting the ropes first)
Prevent ‘digging in’ at sides of mouth
Allow bottom to ‘bite down’ – helpful!
Drooling may be a problem or a turn on!


•Training


Know your stuff.
Try to get some real life training on rope bondage.
Learn basic first aid procedures.


•What if something goes wrong?


Always think "what if...?".
Have a get out plan
Use quick release knots where appropriate
Keep safety shears close at hand
Know emergency procedures - telephone numbers, emergency exits, fire procedures etc
Don't Panic.

An toàn trong khi chơi trói bondage

Rope Bondage Health & Safety

Acknowledgements to slimlthrsub and Esinem

Although rope can be fun, it can also be dangerous. A rope bondage Top has a great responsibility, he must take care not to injure his sub, or indeed endanger his sub's life. The following should be considered:

Rope hazards
Tying/untying
Asphyxiation / Constriction
Standing / Suspension
First Aid
Responsibility
Rope hazards

Be careful with your rope, especially if you have long loops of it pooled on the floor around you. It is easy to trip and fall if the rope gets tangled around the sub's legs, or your own, or (if in public) around those of a spectator/passer-by. Try and keep an eye on where your rope is at all times.

Do not rush. Instruct the sub to remain still when you are tying him in a standing position. He might decide to help you by turning to give you access to his back or front, or lift one foot to allow rope to pass underneath, but is better if he stays in a stable position while you work around him.

Tying/untying

There are several safety points to keep in mind when tying a person up. A simple one is to beware of something I call "whip- eye". This is where you are pulling rope through itself quickly, either whilst tying or untying, and the sub is watching with interest. Suddenly the free end of the rope comes whipping out and smacks the unsuspecting victim in the face. Not good! Slow down, or, if you in a hurry, shield his face with your other hand.

Also, pulling rope fast against skin will cause burns, so slow down. If you are pulling a line of rope under another line with bare skin underneath, pull the upper line away from the skin and then angle the rope you are pulling so that it rubs against the overlying line instead.

Avoid large knots, especially in sensitive areas and particularly if the sub is going to be lying down on them, as this can cause pain or injury.

You may have to untie the person quickly, if he becomes unwell or starts to panic. For this reason, always ensure that the hands are easy to get to in order to free them. If you are using a long piece of rope (more than five metres), do not use this to tie the hands and then the rest of the body, as you will then have to work backwards to untie everything else before you can free his hands. Either (a) tie his hands with a separate, shorter piece of rope, or (b) use the last few metres to tie the hands.

In an emergency, you may have to cut rope off your sub. It is best not to use ordinary scissors or blades to do this, as there is a danger of injuring the person, especially if he is panicking and unable to keep still. A much better option is a safety knife or Safety scissors / EMT sheers.

Asphyxiation / Constriction

The diagram below shows areas to be mindful of when tying. RED areas are particularly dangerous. ORANGE are less dangerous but still warrant care and attention.

DANGER ZONES

1 - NECK! - Be very careful placing rope around this area because of the risk of choking and/or strangulation.

2 - NOSE AND MOUTH! - keep airways clear for breathing

3 - CHEST/ABDOMEN - bindings too tight here will prevent the lungs from inflating

4 - ARMPITS - avoid tight bindings under the armpits or near the top two inches of the inner upper arm, as this will compress the major nerves to the arms (brachial plexus)

5 - OUTER UPPER ARM - about 2/3 of the way from elbow to the shoulder is a vulnerable point for the radial nerve

6 - KNOTCH BELOW BASE OF THUMB - radial nerve

7 - BELOW LITTLE FINGER SIDE OF WRIST - ulnar nerve

8 - HOLLOW OF ELBOW - brachial artery

9 - KNOTCH OF ELBOW - "funny bone", ulnar nerve

Asphyxiation is anything that interrupts the ability to breathe properly and thereby deprives the body of oxygen. Areas to consider are:

1 - NECK! - Anything that constricts the neck risks pressing on the carotid artery, cutting off the flow of blood to the brain (strangulation). It can also compress the trachea (windpipe), cutting off the supply of air to the lungs (choking). Both have the same effect: depriving the brain of oxygen, which can lead to unconsciousness and death. Do not loop or circle rope around the neck unless it is FIRMLY fixed with absolutely no danger of it slipping/tightening.

NEVER lay rope across the front of the neck / throat. If you wrap rope around the head (eg: to make a gag) make sure it does not slip down to the neck.

2 - NOSE AND MOUTH! - Take care with rope that covers the nostrils and/or mouth. Ensure that the sub can breathe through the rope OK. If you use a rope gag DO NOT cover the nostrils with anything.

3 - CHEST/ABDOMEN - If rope is too tight around the chest or stomach it can make breathing difficult, especially if the person is lying face down or bent forward, if it prevents the chest from expanding when the person breathes in (compressive asphyxia).

Also be mindful of this when tying someone face-down, even if there is no rope crossing the chest (ie: hogtied). In this position the sub is lifting a portion of the weight of his upper body when he inhales, and this may be easier for some than for others. If he gets into difficulty and cannot change position he will be in danger of positional asphyxia which has been the cause of death for people who have been restrained by, for example, police and prison officers.

Constriction: Bindings that are too tight will cut off the circulation of blood to body parts and/or damage nerves. Certain body parts are more vulnerable than others because blood vessels and nerves are closer to the surface here (points 4-8).

You can lay rope in these areas without worry as long as the bindings are not too tight. Before finishing a tie insert a finger between the rope and the sub's skin to create a gap, and leave this gap in place when you tie off. Leave enough room for the body part to move slightly within / under the binding.

Avoid using single lines of thin rope, especially in these areas, as they will 'bite' into the skin. The rope should be no less than 4mm in diameter, and using several lines (eg: wrapping the rope around the area several times) will create a more comfortable cuff that distributes the pressure over a larger area, lessening the danger of restriction.

A simple knot may not look or feel too tight at first, but if it slips it may tighten when the person moves. A quick and easy way to stop this from happening is by using a reef knot.

Regardless, you should ALWAYS check for signs of constriction. If circulation is restricted to a body part (such as arms, hands, legs) the skin will look darker and feel colder compared to the rest of the body. Keep checking for these danger signs, especially if the sub is tied up for long periods.

If you tie his hands behind his back and then lie him down on his back for a prolonged period this will put pressure on his arms, again restricting blood flow.

It is also important that the sub understands that he is to report any loss of sensation/numbness that he experiences in any part of his body. Some subs will hesitate to do this, either because they think it is a normal part of the proceedings, or out of masochism. They must be instructed that this is NOT acceptable!

Standing / Suspension, where the sub is held in an upright position for a prolonged period, can also have dangers. If a person remains in a vertical position without moving his legs for more than around thirty minutes there is danger of blood circulation being impaired. This can lead to a variety of problems, some of them serious.

Gravity will cause venous pooling (blood pumped by the heart to the lower body not returning as quickly as it would normally), thus depriving the heart of its normal volume of circulating blood. This reduces pressure in the arteries, and therefore reduces the amount of oxygenated blood reaching the brain, which in turn will lead to fainting. This happens sometimes, for example, with a soldier standing sentry without moving for a long time, and with people wearing parachutes or climbing harnesses who are left hanging following accidents. The medical term for this is orthostatic shock.

Be careful when tying someone in a standing position where their feet/legs are bound, and vertical suspensions.
Look out for the following danger signs:

* Nausea
* Palpitations
* Profuse sweating
* Confusion
* Paleness
* Loss of or greying of vision
* Fainting

Also, if you take the person's pulse and notice a rapid beat followed by a slow beat you should take IMMEDIATE action.

If you notice ANY of the above danger signs:

* 1 - Loosen legs and assist him in moving/flexing/bending them to encourage normal blood flow.
* 2 - Untie completely and sit him down, supported (against a wall or with you holding him up) with his knees drawn up to his chest, his arms around his knees.

DO NOT LIE HIM DOWN FLAT STRAIGHT AWAY - this could be dangerous, as it will cause a sudden return of deoxygenated blood to the heart.

* 3 - Tell him to breathe slowly and deeply, in through the nose and out through the nose and mouth.
* 4 - Give him sips of water
* 5 - Tell him to rest until he feels better.
* 6 - Talk to him to reassure him that he is safe

If he loses consciousness lower him into a sitting position and check his breathing. After a couple of minutes lower him GRADUALLY intothe recovery position.

Also with suspension there may be a danger of constriction cutting off circulation if the load is not distributed properly. Another danger is falling if the rope is not strong enough or not secured properly. Be sure you know what you are doing before attempting to suspend someone, this is not something you should try as a beginner until you have gained more experience.

First Aid

A little First Aid knowledge can go a long way. A lot, of course, can go a lot further. Anyone who has the opportunity to go on a First Aid course should do so, as they may well find it makes the difference between life and death. Check for local courses in your area. Your employer maybe be able to fund you to take part. Failing this, get yourself a basic First Aid book and make sure you have some basic supplies near to hand.

Rope bondage by itself should not be hazardous, but you should always be prepared for unsuspected problems.

As with any BDSM play, check with the sub by asking him if he has any medical conditions that you need to be aware of. If he is feeling unwell it is probably not a good idea for him to be tied up. If he has drunk more than a moderate amount of alcohol, or if he has taken any kind of recreational drugs, it is NOT a good idea to continue.

Injuries resulting from bondage are rare, and rarely serious.

ROPE BURNS can be treated with a burn spray or cream. If the skin is broken, wash and apply a dressing.

BRUISES/CUTS may occur if your sub trips and falls. Minor cuts should be washed and dressed. If there is heavier bleeding apply a little pressure to the wound and elevate the body part above the level of the heart.

CRAMPS can be caused by a tightening or contraction of a muscle or group of muscles. Untie and gently stretch/massage the affected area. Cramps can also be caused by dehydration, so give him some water to sip. Don't let him drink too fast, and make sure the water is still, not fizzy.

FAINTING can be caused by many things. A reduction in blood flow to the brain causes a brief loss of consciousness. This could be in response to extreme pain, strong emotion or standing still for a long time in a hot place. Likewise, being held in a fixed upright position, standing or suspended (as detailed above) can have the same effect.

* Signs and symptoms: Feeling weak, faint, giddy, nauseous
* looks very pale.

* What to do: Lay him down and raise his legs above his heart.
(NOTE - If he has been upright for more than twenty minutes sit him down first, then gradually lower him onto his back).
* Loosen any rope and clothing around the neck, chest and waist. Open windows and ask people to stand back so as not to restrict the flow of fresh air.
* Reassure him as he comes round.
* If he does not recover within a few minutes put him into the recovery position and call an ambulance.


RECOVERY POSITION for someone who is conscious and breathing normally:

* Lie the person on his back
* straighten legs
* place the arm nearest to you at a right angle to the body with the palm facing up
* bring the other arm across the body and place the back of his hand against the cheek nearest to you
* with your other hand get hold of the knee furthest from you and pull it up until the foot is flat on the floor
* keep hold of the hand against his cheek to support his head
* pull the bent leg towards you, rolling him onto his side
* pull the top leg up into a bent position

See the British Red Cross YouTube video

Responsibility

A final piece of advice is to not leave a sub alone while restrained for any prolonged length of time. There is no right or wrong time limit, just common sense. Probably nothing will happen but if something does, you really should be there to take control.

The sub's safety is your first responsibility.

Giới thiệu về BDSM

If you are new to all this, a little introduction may be useful.

BDSM is the term most often used nowadays to refer to sexuality that involves power, domination, pain, bondage, roleplay and fetishes.

It includes SM (or "S&M"); sadomasochism = sexuality involving the enjoyment of inflicting and/or receiving pain. However, there are many similar forms of sexuality that have elements in common with SM but do not necessarily involve physical pain, and so the term BDSM is a more all-encompassing term that includes Bondage / Discipline / Domination / Submission / Sadism / Masochism.

This distinction is important because bondage, for example, is a fetish which with many people does not involve pain.

Leather clothing and paraphenalia have long been associated with S&M, and traditionally (circa 1960s-1980s) gay men in the US and Europe with an interest in SM were always identified with leathermen (men wearing "full leather" - usually motorcycle leathers - as immortalised in the artwork of Tom of Finland). However, a fetish for leather is a separate form of sexuality to SM. You can, and do, have one without the other.

People are classified according to their inclination. The dominant partner is called a Dominant - Dom for short (or Domme if female) and the submissive partner is called a submissive or sub. Traditionally the former is capitalised, the latter is not. More specifically, "Masters" and "slaves" refer to relationships in which the domination and submission extends beyond sexual roleplay and becomes the basis for a structured arrangement in which one partner consents to become the "property" of the other.

Relationships in which one partner dominates the other are therefore referred to generally as D/s (Dom/sub) or more specifically as M/s (Master or Mistress/slave).

Definitions and interpretations will vary from person to person. There is no central authority on BDSM, no tablets of stone. There are traditions but there are also new developments coming along all the time. What is relevant is what works for the individuals concerned.

A person who enjoys dominating and submitting at different times and/or with different people is called a switch.

The term vanilla is used by BDSM people to refer to non-BDSM sexuality ("normal sex").

This is just the tip of the iceberg! For more detailed information see the Wikipedia article: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bdsm, and the Xeromag FAQ page http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm.html and glossarywww.xeromag.com/fvbdglossary.html

My Advice for Novice Doms may also be worth a read.

Leathermen
Leathermen are part of a long proud tradition originating in the USA in the mid-20th century. The culture is credited to have grown out of post-World War II biker culture in the 1940s, and early gay leather bars were subcultural versions of the motorcycle club.

The significance of leather culture to gay men at the time was a major innovation in male homosexual identity. Prior to the advent of leather there were no masculine role models. What little gay community did exist was often centered around people associated with the theatre, in particular female impersonators (the first drag queens). This alienated the majority of gay men, who did not share these interests or feminine characteristics. To them, leather was a revelation: gay men who dressed and acted like men was a breath of fresh air.

To a large extent, an interest in leather represents a fetish for masculinity, and for many men this is as far as it goes. A guy who is "into leather" may or may not be into BDSM, he may just enjoy the look and feel of the clothing and gear. The same is true in Britain for clones, bears and skinheads, who in the 1980s emerged as further masculine gay subcultures. Other "gear" fetishes include rubber, denim and uniforms.

Historically, however, leathermen have been the main representatives of gay BDSM culture in the USA and Europe and they are still its most visible symbols. Today leather is often used as a signifier of an interest or involvement in BDSM, and is often used as a shorthand for gay BDSM. Most gay fetish clubs include all of the above as variations on the theme of masculine kink.

Leather/BDSM newbies are advised to read John Pendal's "My First Night in a Leather Bar" - http://www.iml2003.com/beef1.htm

Masters and slaves

BDSM ownership is a mutually consensual arrangement between two (or more) people, in which one surrenders power to the other and becomes his "property". The slave then serves the Master, obeying his orders and carrying out duties under his Master's direction.

This resembles a Dominant/submissive roleplay but goes further, beyond sex and kink and into the wider lifestyle. Ownership is considered to be indefinite, depending upon the rules agreed in advance by both parties. The degree of control varies, the most extreme being the Total Power Exchange (TPE) in which the Master controls every aspect of the slave's life.

Unlike real slavery, in which the victim has no choice, a BDSM slave is voluntarily surrendering power to someone that he wants to serve as completely as possible. The "ownership" is of course not legally binding, but is a mutual committment between the two partners involved.

The relationship ends at the Master's discretion, though the slave also has the power to end the relationship if his failure to obey commands results in the ultimate punishment: dismissal from service.

Today there are variations on the terminology of the roles, the Dominant partner can be called a Dom, a Master, Boss, an Owner, or a Dogtrainer, etc.; the submissive partner can be called a slave, sub, boy or "boi" (who may be older than the Dom), a dog or dogslave, puppy or pup, etc., depending on the characteristics of the individuals concerned.

Traditionally the Master would be a leatherman, but today the Dominant partner can be a skinhead, a daddy bear, or anything. Neither partner has to conform to any mode of dress or behaviour, they can make up their own rules and rituals.

Often the relationship is formalised with the signing of a contract that sets out the rules and responsibilities of the Dominant and submissive.

In many cases the Master gives his slave a symbol to wear that denotes his ownership, usually a collar or a padlocked chain.

Relationship patterns can vary. The Master and slave may be a monogamous couple or they may have an open relationship. Either one may already be in a non-BDSM open relationship, to which the BDSM relationship is an added extra. The Master may have more than one slave or sub (a stable), and his first slave (alpha slave) may have dominance over the secondary slaves. Casual encounters with other Dominants and submissives may be allowed.

The Master may a have partner who is sexually submissive but does not want to commit to a structured M/s relationship and is therefore known simply as a sub. The Master may have a committed slave or slaves and also have subs with whom he plays.

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Tìm hiểu về dây trói

There are many different types of bondage, using a variety of materials - tape, straightjackets, handcuffs, leather restraints - but rope is my favourite. Rope itself can be rugged or sensual, or both at the same time. It is a very versatile material which can be used to bind someone in a very simple, practical way or a very complex, attractive way.




Rope is a no-nonsense, non-fussy resource that is relatively cheap and very portable. Its use as a bondage material can present possibilities and challenges that inspire a great deal of creativity.




In human history, rope is probably the earliest material used to restrain people, so it has historical precedent. In feudal Japan it was raised to an art form (hojojutsu, from which has evolved the modern erotic Japanese bondage art nawa shibari).




Today rope bondage in many forms is very popular, both as simple kink and as a form of erotic art. It can be very simple or very complex, and for beginners it is advisable to start small and get some experience with simpler techniques before moving onto the more ambitious creations.




It is also important to remember some basic points on safety at all times. See Rope Bondage Health & Safety




Rope: Buying, Preparation, Storage




You can get rope from a variety of places, and depending on the type and the source, the price can vary a great deal. If you are just starting out you don't need to look too far or spend very much, just get some decent basic stuff. Your nearest hardware store should have what you need.




Make sure it is rope, not string, twine or plastic cord! It should be at least 4mm in diameter (this will be on the label). Either natural or synthetic is OK. Natural rope most often available is jute, which is brown and has a coarse, hairy texture. Cotton rope is very soft and usually a lighter colour. Most synthetic rope you will see on sale is polyester, which comes in a variety of colours and has a smoother texture.




You won't need tons to begin with, but you will need a fair amount. A bundle of ten metres of jute will cost about £5. Get two bundles. Keep one as it is, and cut the other one into two, three or four so that you have pieces of various lengths to play with. It is best to have relatively shorter pieces for tying hands and feet, for instance.




When you cut rope you will be cutting the fibres that it is made of, and the ends will fray. Some people like the look of this, but it can make bondage tricky and erodes the rope, so seal the ends with tape.




For different types of rope go to a chandler's shop or use online suppliers.




There are different ways to store your rope when you are not using it, the best way being so that when you get it out again to play with, you can do so quickly and easily.




What you DON'T want is to start a horny session by pulling out a tangled mass of rope that looks like a big ball of spaghetti, and spending ten minutes sorting it all out.




This is my method:




1 - Tie a loop in the midpoint of the rope. If you want to do something with your rope that looks neat and symmetrical, you will need to find the midpoint. You could mark it with ink, but that spoils the overall look. Find the middle by bringing the two ends together and holding them in one hand, then running your hand down the doubled rope until you reach the other end. Tie a simple loop here, not too tight.




2 - Double up the rope. Bring the trailing ends up to the midpoint loop and hold them and the loop in one hand. Let the rest dangle loose.




3 - Double up again. Repeat this process until you have a thick bundle of rope with the midpoint loop at the top.




4 - Knot the whole rope. Tie the whole thing in a simple knot and pull it just tight enough that it won't slip.




You now have an easy to store, easy to find bundle that will be ready to use in seconds. To use, undo the big knot and hold the midpoint loop. Let the rest of the rope fall to the ground. (If the rope is very long, and you have enough room, hold onto the midpoint loop and throw the rest of it away from you.) It will fall loose and untangled. Then undo the midpoint loop and you are ready to go.




Binding Hands: Wrap




There are many different ways to tie someone's hands together, but the best way is to do so is in a way that is safe, simple and as easy for YOU to undo as quickly as possible. For this, the basic wrap is a good method:




Place the sub's hands in front of him, palms facing, a few inches apart.




Take a medium-length piece of rope and drape it over the wrists, with the midpoint of the rope between the wrists.




Wrap both ends of the rope around the wrists a few times, forming a large loop, preferably without crossing the lines.




Using several lines to form the loop helps distribute the width of the rope lying on the skin so that it 'bites' less. (You can speed this process up by doubling the rope at the beginning, as in the picture above)




Keep the distance between the hands. There will be plenty of space in between them.

When you have about ten inches of trailing ends left, wrap them around the loop several times, starting in the middle and working outwards. Continue until you have closed the loop, but not so tight that the rope meets the wrists.




Keep a space of one width of your finger between the rope and the skin.

Tie off in the middle with a reef knot - left over right, then right over left.




Check to make sure that the loop has not tightened, you want the sub to able to move his hands around within the rope, but not pull them out. This will ensure that circulation is not restricted. It should feel comfortable for him.




Binding Hands: Shackle




The above technique can be used to tie hands behind the back if the arms are parrallel, but is difficult if the wrists are crossed as there is very little space between them. The shackle is better:




Wrap the rope around both wrists together several times.




Pass one of the free ends under all the lines and out the other side.

Now do the same with the other free end, in the opposite direction.

Tie off in the middle with a reef knot - left over right, then right over left.

Check to make sure that the shackle is comfortable and not too tight.




The shackle can also be used to tie hands in front of the body with wrists crossed.







Rope Harness Techniques




These are methods for binding the arms behind the torso:




Rope Harness




Reverse Rope Harness




Shoulder Harness




Reverse Shoulder Harness







Resources




Different types of rope have different properties. Both natural and synthetic rope can be used for bondage. For a good guide to all the different types available, go to ESINEM.com and Click on "Rope".




A good book to get you started is Showing You the Ropes by Two Knotty Boys, currently about £7 from Amazon. It is a a step-by-step guide to knots and techniques, with lots of easy to follow photographs.




The best way to learn anything is from other people. In the Links section you will find websites and organisations where you can talk to bondage/BDSM people, most of whom are very happy to answer questions from newbies.

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Pic of the week "OK Boy you're coming with us!"

Pic of the week - "That should hold him!"

The Ransom Note

The jumped us when he left the gym.

There were 5 of them all with semi-automatic weapons.

We were forced into the back of a large van.

They tied our hands behind our backs.

Then they beat the shit out of our guts.

I don't know where we are

They untied me to make this video...

We are kept tied up.

It's fucking hot as hell here.  Like I said we are tied up most of the time.
They use rope and tied is as tight as they can.
I'm scared with rope burns...

We have changed locations several times.


When we do they lash my arms together behind my back....

Tape our eyes until we get to they new place.

Most of the time we are strung up by our wrists.

Our bound feet are on the floor.

All we can do is hang and sweat.  

Justin made the mistake of crying out...

They roped him bad and beat the crap out of him.

They torture our minds by blindfolding us...

...and then shooting all around us.....

They want a million dollars for each of us.

Or they have plans....

They said they will pick one of us , gouge out his eyes, cut off his fingers, and castrate him.

They give you until noon tomorrow.


Please save us!

For they got me bound and ready to be tortured!

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Kidnapped and Tied up

"They tied us all up with good strong rope and tape.  It was very tight and hurt a lot. I could not feel my numb arms, but the cramps in my legs was excruciating.  They rag went so far down my throat that I was having gagging reflexes.  The awkwardness of having my arms together behind me expanded my chest and my my breathing labored.  My sweat beading on my forehead burned my eyes.  And then I was beaten...


Put on my knees, grabbed by my hair, and kicked in my gut until I collapsed onto my face.

I was dragged across the room.

There was an open trap door...

I looked down and saw my friends all tied up.

I was kicked and fell down the stairs.

I was groggy.  I looked at our prison...

One of our kidnapper came down and finished tying me up.

He went back up the stairs.

The trap door was closed and we were plunged into darkness."

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"I was on my belly.  I could not turn onto my side for the long branch that bound my upper arms behind my back protruded out a good foot on each side.

My upper arms were lashed to it so tightly that it stopped all my blood from moving down my arms.  My elbows to my wrists were circled in a tight mass of ropes, that scraped the hairs and skin of my forearms."

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My whole upper body was covered with ropes, binding my arms deep into my back.   They tied my thumbs together, then my fingers, and after taping up my hands bound my wrists and my arms upward to my elbows.  Each of my legs was bent and roped.  A rope was tied twice behind my head, between my teeth, fixing the rags deep in my mouth.  I was pulled back by my hair, and my bent back neck was tied to my two big toes. If I wanted to relax my neck my ties would be torn from my feet.  This curved back my back, and waves of pain throbbed through my spine.

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They had taped our eyes by now.  I could not fucking move any part of my body.  A cold sweat broke through every pore of my body and a shiver came from deep within me.  I was completely helpless and they could do whatever they wanted to me.  I was moaning and my groans joined with the others.  I made the mistake of flexing my arms, trying to loosen the ropes binding them to the branch, but it only made matters worse, for the ropes became tighter than before.

So I lay there in my bonds wondering if this was my final resting place.

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They only came once to check on us.  Somebody had his hands on me.  The touch of their fingers made me jerk.  My hair was pulled.  "You like this don;t you boy?"  I shook my head "NO."  He began to stroke my bare shoulders.  The sensation felt good.  I could not believe I was enjoying him feeling me up.  He moved down to my feet and began to wiggle his fingers on the soles of my feet.  The sensation made me pop a woodie.  Here I was, kidnapped and tied up and was enjoying my abductor tickle my feet!

"Let's take this one," he said."

"Take me," I thought.  I shook my head NO and he beat me till I was knocked out cold.

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I could see a small bit under the tape covering my eyes.  I watched him tickle and then beat Pedro.  They the cut him from the hogtie and cut his upper arms from the branch.  Blood squirted out from the deep rope cuts.

They pulled him up the stairs and locked the trap door.  Once again we were plunged into darkness.

I waited as the screams began from above.

I knew it -- they were torturing Pedro......

I could hear him fall to the floor.  He gag was out and he was screaming, begging them to stop.  Finally the screams stopped......

The door opened...

"Your friend is dead they yelled, and through Pedro's body down the stairs."

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I faked being dead, which was not far from the truth.  They had untied me and then 5 to one they all attached me.  My arms were totally numb and useless, I was just about able to cover my face as they beat me with some of the branches that had bound our arms.  I begged them to stop.  I felt my ribs break.  Finally them all jumped on me and just pounded my face.   Sweat and Blood were squirting everywhere.  Finally I hot the back of my head hard.  I lost my senses for a minute but played dead, holding my breath as long as I could.  They just kicked my lifeless body down the stairs....

Laughing the whole time."

I was weeping.  Pedro is my lover.  Now he was dead.  I did not care any more.  I started shifting back and forth and broke off the branch  protruding from  my right arm.  Though still bound to it, I was able to turn on my side in the direction of Pedro.  The sweat had loosed the tape on my eyes and it fell down to my nose.  There was so little light...

Pedro was on his side.  He was black and blue from the blows, his eyes swollen and his nose broken.  Yet he was still breathing!  Soon he started to move.  He saw my eyes in the dim light.... and slowly crawled over to me.  His fingers were twice their size but he was able to fumble the knots that bound me and quickly I was free from the ropes.

I quickly got to my friends and untied them.

I went up the stairs.  There was no sounds.  We all had a weapon now, the branch that tortured our arms....

I put my back against the trap door and kept pushing up until it swung open.

There was nobody there.

We gently brought Pedro up.  I stayed with him as some others found materials to make a make-shift stretcher.  We put Pedro's broken body on it.

I held his hand as we left our prison...

It was not long until we found a road and waved for help...

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And now we have a new game....